Today’s MUSING MONDAYS post is about talking to strangers…
We were all warned as children to 'never talk to strangers', but how do you feel about book-talk with random people? When you see people reading, do you ask what it is? Do you talk to people in the book store or the library? Why or why not? What do you do if people talk to you? (question courtesy of Dena)
PLEASE LEAVE A COMMENT with either the link to your own Musing Mondays post, or share your opinion in a comment here (if you don’t have a blog). Thanks.
As someone who has never had very many book-y friends, I was always worried that I would ramble on too much about what I was reading. This never bothered me too much, but sooner or later my friends would get that glazed look in their eyes that indicated that they had stopped listening some time ago. Because of this, I find that I'm very cautious about talking to strangers about books, even if I see them reading.
If it's in a place where I truly don't know the person - the bus, the doctor's office, in shopping centre - I rarely just start talking to them. I do, however (and my sister will attest to this), try to crane my neck sneakily to figure out what the book is. If I get caught and the person smiles, realising what I'm doing, I figure I'm safe and sometimes talk to them then.
At uni I'll usually ask, but more often than not what someone's reading is for class and they've got all off ten minutes to try to finish the book and they're not really in the right frame of mind to chat.
The bookstore, however, is an entirely different story. I LOVE it when people talk to me in the bookstore and I have no qualms whatsoever about talking to them. I get so many book recommendations this way! And I love being able to answer questions about books or authors - I think I'm spending too much time hovering in the book shop.
So if you're out-and-about with a book and you see some strange person who looks like they have severe neck condition, it's probably just me trying to book-spy. Come on over and say hi, I promise I'm not as freaky as I look.
48 comments :
I know what you mean about trying to spy -- I've been guilty of that. And I agree with you about opening up to people in bookstores more -- you definitely feel they share your interest in reading.
My post is here:
http://findyournextbookhere.blogspot.com/2009/03/musing-mondays-talking-to-strangers.html
Here's mine.
Happy Monday!
LOL. I love your answer. I've seen that glazed look before in my friends eyes too. I posted my answer here: http://debbiesworld.wordpress.com/2009/03/15/musing-monday-march-16/
"I'm up"
Mine Is Up :)
http://thesocialfrog.com/?p=1521
Have a Great Day :)
congrats on your well deserved award Becca. We are all strangers meeting at your friendly bolg to talk about books! My musing is here
This is myf irst go at Musng Monday, so hope I've done it right. my post is at: http://aussiereviews.blogspot.com/2009/03/musing-monday-talking-to-strangersthis.html
Mine is up...
http://socratesbookreviews.blogspot.com/2009/03/monday-musings_16.html
LOL about your book-spying... I would do the same but not too obviously since I'm shy about beeing snooping around :)
here is my post..
http://desertrosebooklogue.blogspot.com/2009/03/musing-mondays-5.html
Here's my post:
http://elizabethwillse.wordpress.com/2009/03/16/musing-mondays-316/
"a severe neck condition." heh!
Happy Monday!
http://steph3891.blogspot.com/2009/03/we-were-all-warned-as-children-to-never.html
Great question! Here's mine! http://www.bostonbibliophile.com/2009/03/musing-mondays_16.html
A little too personally revealing perhaps, but here is MY ANSWER nevertheless.
I'm pretty chatty, I won't lie! I also worked part-time in a bookstore for two years, and still swing by there to work. So I'm pretty used to talking to strangers :)
http://writemeg.wordpress.com/2009/03/16/musing-mondays-talking-to-strangers/
Ha ha, I book-spy as well but I never really try to be discrete about it - and people generally don't care.
Here's my first MM http://risforreading.blogspot.com/2009/03/monday-musings.html
Mine's up here
Mine is here: http://storytimewithtonya.blogspot.com/2009/03/monday-musing-book-talk.html
What a great post. I book-spy also. I love seeing what other people are reading.
My answer is up here. :) ~MizB
Good question!
My answer!
Mine is up:
http://stateofdenmark2.wordpress.com
I would talk to you anytime about books Rebecca! Even if you are staring me down.
Her is mine:
http://jennylovestoread.blogspot.com/2009/03/musing-monday-march-16.html
I know I posted this earlier. Don't know what happened.
Like you, I have not had very many reading friends. One minute is about the extent I get in before the eye-glazing appears.
My post is Here
Here's to another manic Musing Monday! Here's my link: My Muse and Me.
great question! I'm so guilty of book-spying. Mine's here:
http://worldinsidemyheadbookblog.blogspot.com/2009/03/musing-mondays-stranger-danger.html
Great question and I loved your response.
Mine's up. http://carolsnotebook.wordpress.com/2009/03/16/musing-monday-8/
I love this question!
My answer is here.
lIKE YOUR ANSWER, MINE IS HERE, http://zetor-mogsblog.blogspot.com/2009/03/musing-mondays_16.html
I have seen that glazed-eye when will she ever stop talking look before. great post
my musings are here
http://ladygaladrielkj.blogspot.com/2009/03/monday-musings-talking-to-strangers.html
Thanks for hosting Musing Monday, you should check into "MR. Linky" to create easy to use links and list for your meme. It really helps facilitate checking out other musings. Mr. Linky is used in other meme's that I participate in. Just an idea.
Hi!
Like your post and I'll agree people in book stores and library are fair game if they start a conversation! Mine is posted here: http://sherriesbooks.blogspot.com/2009/03/musing-mondays_16.html Have a great day!
Sherrie
Mine's up. I don't really have any RL booky friends either, unfortunately.
Here goes mine!
Great question.
Mine is up here
here is my mm post
http://bookwormygirl.blogspot.com/2009/03/musing-mondays.html
♥ Nely
My Musing is here.
usually, no.
My full answer is up. :)
Here's my answer! Musing Mondays
Mine is up!
This is really a wonderful weekly event.
http://bibliophile23.wordpress.com/2009/03/16/musing-monday/
Here are my thoughts
Here's my post!
Fun question!
Here's my post:
http://nanscorner.wordpress.com/2009/03/16/musing-mondays-march-16/
Better late than never!
http://www.morbid-romantic.net/2009/03/17/musing-mondays-book-talk-with-strangers/
Whew! There for a while I thought I was going to be musing on Tuesday instead of Monday! My ramblings are up!
I'd rather talk to strangers about books on the computer :-): Musing Monday on Friday.
I like to sneak a peek at what others are reading too. :-)
My response is up.
A bit late...
http://thebookresort.blogspot.com/2009/03/musing-mondays_31.html
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